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URBANSOCIALITES.COM 13 How will you add value to a union. Can you: balance a checkbook? cook a meal? clean a house? plan an excursion? make a million dollar experience out of zero dollars? Engage in a meaningful conversation on a myriad of topics, citing sources that inform your opinion?What have you read lately?Where have you traveled? What museums and/or culture affairs, that have expanded your world view, have you attended lately?What have you studied and what can you teach ( other than sexual fetes)? Got hobbies and interests- How are they shaping you?What can you introduce to the relationship: a new coffee house, Yoga/Painting/dance studio, different culture/cuisine, nice hiking trail, swanky bar? Do you bring peace, joy, happiness...or drama, confusion, madness? Are you centered, able to make conscious/sound decisions? Are you really over that ex or are you a chronic dater- jumping from one person to another- trying to quell the noise of unfinished business? (Quiet as it kept, if you’re pumping and/ or being humped by the city at large; you’re a tricky late night date for a season and not someone who anyone takes seriously enough to build or introduce to their friends- because they already know you, BIBLICALLY!) Have you made prior decisions that make you, at this time, undateable - high debt, 30 children (baby mama and daddy drama) under 5, completing a rigorous course of study, homeless, jobless (take care of that; dating is the least of your concern, for now)? Does your FB page SCREAM - Needy, Desperate, CRAZY AS HELL! Do you share SO MUCH/MANY of your feelings that a suitable mate is dissuaded from approaching you? Is it assumed by your frequent post that you couldn’t possibly be gainfully employed or be doing anything of importance because of your constantYap,Yap,Yapping... Every hour, every other minute, harping on dating, not dating, would date, won’t date...WHO INTHE HELL DOESTHAT??? Furthermore,WHO CARES??? Are you maturing spiritually? If your mate was in a crisis could you pray them through, lead them to a place of solace? If you could date you (not your ego; person perceived by the masses); the real you.. Honestly, would you be a contender? Looks fades...Warm Hearts,Tempered Spirits, Informed Intellect, Relentless Focus, Fairness andWell Rounded-ness areTIMELESS- and Trumps over superficiality and pretense, ANY AND EVERYDAY!!! Quality attracts Quality. Mess attracts Mess. Fools attract Fools. Having a checklist that’s inclusive of standards of: BY GEORGE LUSTER IV URBANSOCIALITES.COM QUESTION SINGLES? WHO ARE YOU BECOMING IN THE MEANTIME,