part two clean home your teen needs a safe, sober environment to live in. we ask that you have a “clean home” for your teen. this means no alcohol or drugs are stored or used at home. if you drink, do so outside of the house. meals recommend that all family members eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner every day. we also s uggest t hat you have a m inimum o f 4 family dinners together per week where parents provide and prepare all meals. also, no technology at the dinner table. calendar having a family calendar is a good idea because it provides structure and reassurance for all family members. remember that everybody will k now where everybody i s, j ust like i f you were a ll a t camp. perhaps you can hang a large calendar in your kitchen for everyone on your computer and put it on the refrigerator. have fun with it! are a good c hoice a s it m arks t he beginning and t he end o f the no blame zone is nobody t o blame. i f you are having “ blame feelings” (anger, we recommend family and individual therapy when possible. 3